NakeyNotes
To be noted: if I joke (or not) about thinking it would be best if you were nude in that picture when you ask what you should wear, +/- any variations on that theme, chances are it's coming more from a nakey-people-look-neat place than a drooling-over-naked-flesh place. Ditto seductive clothing etc - more from a visual appreciation than arousal. (Actually had remarkably little arousal when attending a ~sex party, and none when taken to strip clubs... apparently been mostly deprogrammed from such things.) It might also be coming from a not-very-clever teasing place. Sometimes is flirty, but mostly not.
Type thing.
Type thing.